Well for something recent, I don’t think you can go wrong with this one from dagmar zuniga, though it’s on the mellow side of things
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I’m sorry, I can imagine it’s very hard to keep going with it being unrelenting. It took a while for me to find any moments, so I don’t think this means they’re not coming. But I know that doesn’t mean much right now. This feeling can be so severe. It’s just sad to see it happening to you, like the injustice of it all, because of how good you are to everyone here. But it’s not fair to say that you have to fix the injustice. I’m just really sorry this is happening to you, and I hope you are able to see this moment thru to its end.
It can be hard to open up around so much hurting. You matter too, and I hope if you do step away from the site, you just try to do something that shows yourself the care you show for others
I know how intense this can feel, but have you ever felt this way before? Do you remember the moments that come after, where you think “I’m really glad I didn’t do it”? I’ve found that I always end up thinking that, and I hope you give yourself a chance to think it too
Allieto
4tran4•part of why i’m so depressed and dissociated with my transition and life is cause of everyone telling me i’ve made it
2·45 minutes agoIt can be really easy for people to see one thing and go “you have everything!!” and it really sucks that people can’t ever seem to learn that it doesn’t work that way. I’m sorry that you’re still in such a difficult position
Well I keep a webpage going of what I’m interested, been going for years and its just plain listings now but somehow it still gets people sending me music promos, which is pretty neat. Like I’d had the new Damaged Bug album a few weeks before it came out, I really like that one. But yeah, I’m kind of bad about actually doing the whole music website thing and I’ll make stuff like this choose your own adventure version of a best of 2025 list, where you get 10 different categories and can hit a randomizer until you like what you see before moving on.
I saw this garbage generation from the inside. They deserve all the scorn you could ever want to give them
Allieto
4tran4•Hey… I'm feeling lonely, and… I don't know what to say… I feel like this maybe speaking into a void but I'm feeling really…
1·2 hours agoIt will happen! ygmi
Allieto
4tran4•Hey… I'm feeling lonely, and… I don't know what to say… I feel like this maybe speaking into a void but I'm feeling really…
2·2 hours agoThere’s nothing inside you that makes you deserve punishment you are just a girl who’s trying to live!!
Allieto
4tran4•Hey… I'm feeling lonely, and… I don't know what to say… I feel like this maybe speaking into a void but I'm feeling really…
1·2 hours agoI get where you’re coming from!
<spoiler for my own luckshit situation>
I transitioned at 37 and I’m 40 now, and I pass consistently in a way where I can be confident it isn’t just kindness
I know it can be scary to think about aging, but I think you will find that being recognized as a woman gets easier as you keep going
New music is the best! I’m kind of autistic about it, like these charts show how many times in each year from 2016-2025 I listened to an album or an artist that I’d never heard before that year (including repeat listens, so if I really get into an artist, it shows up extra)

So it’s always a huge presence in my life and totally soul nourishing, but sometimes I get stuck in weird niches and go completely blind to cool stuff happening, but that change doesn’t really show up in a chart like this. It’s been fun tho!! Oh wait it actually does show up in the chart, new artists were dead for a bit but jump up a lot starting last year
I have seen just a glimpse into the care you can show for others via posts here and it would truly be terrible for this to be absent from the many decades of life that you would normally experience.
Oh nice! Smackdown is a great one, jumping into the full album and just hitting the tempo shift in the first track and this rules. Really appreciate the heads up on this! I’ve been trying to stay engaged with new music lately but this came out on the one friday that I was fully incapacitated, glad to not be missing it
Yeah that kind of stuff can get intense, I heard someone talk about “rejection sensitive dysphoria” and then looked it up and reading about it and just kept saying “oh no, oh no, oh no” as I saw each new thing. Hopefully yours doesn’t get that bad but if it does, apparently it’s a whole thing.
I’m glad to see you posting here tho! I am listening to something right now but I’m gonna check out that thing you posted in ttttunes soon because I really enjoy what I’ve heard from Lucy Bedroque but I never heard any collabs so I’m excited to flesh out that whole universe!!
Allieto
4tran4•I wonder, what would life be like if I continued to successfully rep, if I didn't transition...?
2·3 hours agoI know how it can be to fall into the what-ifs, especially when it feels like things could have been different and something terrible could have been avoided. There is no right way to feel about it or to handle it. No matter what, you were facing something terrible in every direction, and you never should have had to face it.
Yeah fucking New Jersey had to fight against the law that blocked sports betting and the supreme court said “yeah sure lets do it” and now everything is like it is. I’d rather go back to having the flintstones doing cigarette ads
Allieto
4tran4•I feel kinda bad my picrels are just reposted Pinterest animals atp, I need higher effort stuff
2·4 hours agoI love to see these animals and I would not feed the rabbit any kind of rock. I would feed it carrots and rabbit food



I don’t hate you! It just sucks to be living through what is one of the among the best times to ever be trans right now but will be remembered in the future as one of the absolute worst. It is hard to feel good about yourself as a tranny right now. But you deserve happiness and have a real shot at it if you keep going