


i misread it as “how do i communicate with cis women ABOUT constantly thinking about their ribcages [etc etc]” sorryyyyyyyyyyy



i misread it as “how do i communicate with cis women ABOUT constantly thinking about their ribcages [etc etc]” sorryyyyyyyyyyy
its so hurtful, everyone judges me 4 not passing bc they think im just not trying hard enough and there’s genuinely nothing i can do to combat it no matter how hard i try i’m going to kill myself
I’M SORRY I TRY SO HARD 😭😭😭 my voice is damaged in pitches over G3 bc i used to sob chronically up until I was like 16


like what? i intend a pretty loose definition for “provide”


i think they’re really just the same thing. missing her is missing everything you provided to each other; a relationship is how two people provide to one another. all relationships are both similar and dissimilar. so, when trying to process, i think its good to avoid thinking about “the relationship” as some ontological state you can be in, and u should try focusing on the little, specific, individual details instead
trying to unlike things is kinda unhealthy, unless its something really bad. there’s value in basically every hobby/interest–you just have to learn how to find it. are there any interests you wish you had which are fembrained? why not try talking to people who enjoy them to see what they like about them? then you could try to imitate what they do
for example, i’ve been consuming a lot more romantic media lately. i used to dislike it because it felt like it just dragged on for too long. then i read someone describing it, where they said the slowness/gradualness was suspenseful to them, and now I’ve learned to see it that way too
idk, im sorry for trying to force help onto you
why can’t u dictate what u like…? just like what u want to like
im confused on how u transition if ur malebrained … i feel like its pretty fembrained to want to be a woman
not really , they’re terrible people, but its probably not healthy for to be fueled by hate for other reasons
aw im sorry :c u didn’t deserve that at all , its really not fair
do you think seeing/hearing her would ruin it?
idk if I could get away with that tho , I’m really ugly as a man too, at least to gay men
ME TOO !!
i also have tented arch fingerprints, which I think are also more common in women