the only time i’ve ever really been in a relationship was in an online one when i was 14… i was also able to somewhat date an asexual guy up until recent, but like, I think I’m now too ugly for even him 😭😭

I feel like it can’t be impossible just because I’m ugly, bc I would never be against dating someone who looked like me… its just… I don’t think anybody really feels the same (it hurtssssssssssss)

I’m not really knowledgeable about this , so I would really appreciate if anyone gave me their insights and stuff, ty

  • pio
    3·
    9 days ago

    i don’t

    hope this helps!

  • pleasantaftertastes
    2·
    9 days ago

    cis men and women ask me out because I’m a tall and pretty looking man to them. I get dinner bought for me and then I get sexually harassed, especially by cis women. Trans dating is a lot nicer and more intimate, but they’re kinda mean to me. The trans man I dated was incredibly sweet, but I made him feel dysphoric because of my features and my height.

    • puppyoomf
      2·
      9 days ago

      reading this was like five consecutive punches to the gut im so sorry u are treated like this

  • Annaflll
    2·
    9 days ago

    Planning on pretending to be a gay man and then if a moid is good I’ll say I’m a tranny, gonna be looking for bishits

    • nikkiOP
      1·
      9 days ago

      idk if I could get away with that tho , I’m really ugly as a man too, at least to gay men

  • puppyoomf
    2·
    9 days ago

    i had a brief thing with someone in my high school friend group when i was still a sneedy babytrans. she was out as a lesbian before and she treated me like i was a regular girl, god bless her. it didnt work out for other reasons, but i dunno, i really did feel like she saw through my outer ugly theymab-looking layer and we just got along as partners, as people. i think its not impossible to find that kind of dynamic

    • puppyoomf
      1·
      9 days ago

      right now im dating a girl online and neither of us know what the other looks like or sounds like and while it does feel a little awkward and stilted i guess it meets a need for both of us well enough so its sort of been working. i wouldnt recommend it though

      • nikkiOP
        2·
        9 days ago

        do you think seeing/hearing her would ruin it?

        • puppyoomf
          1·
          9 days ago

          for me, hearing wouldnt (shes cis) but seeing i guess maybe could. i think looks are more of a factor to me than id like to admit. for her im afraid either or both would. if its reasonably possible i want to train my voice before i ever talk to her but that could take years. and i was told i was attractive as a moid but i dont look much different than i did then, so.

          • puppyoomf
            1·
            9 days ago

            sometimes i get the sense that she feels like she couldnt do any better than me (obviously untrue) and thats why shes keeping me around, and seeing me would dispel that illusion, of course