the only time i’ve ever really been in a relationship was in an online one when i was 14… i was also able to somewhat date an asexual guy up until recent, but like, I think I’m now too ugly for even him 😭😭

I feel like it can’t be impossible just because I’m ugly, bc I would never be against dating someone who looked like me… its just… I don’t think anybody really feels the same (it hurtssssssssssss)

I’m not really knowledgeable about this , so I would really appreciate if anyone gave me their insights and stuff, ty

  • puppyoomf
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    10 days ago

    right now im dating a girl online and neither of us know what the other looks like or sounds like and while it does feel a little awkward and stilted i guess it meets a need for both of us well enough so its sort of been working. i wouldnt recommend it though

    • nikkiOP
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      10 days ago

      do you think seeing/hearing her would ruin it?

      • puppyoomf
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        10 days ago

        for me, hearing wouldnt (shes cis) but seeing i guess maybe could. i think looks are more of a factor to me than id like to admit. for her im afraid either or both would. if its reasonably possible i want to train my voice before i ever talk to her but that could take years. and i was told i was attractive as a moid but i dont look much different than i did then, so.

        • puppyoomf
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          10 days ago

          sometimes i get the sense that she feels like she couldnt do any better than me (obviously untrue) and thats why shes keeping me around, and seeing me would dispel that illusion, of course