i know that the fembrained thing to do is just to tell yourself that my interests arent malebrained but its not working :(
also im back if anyone cares
Everything can be fembrained if u just feel fembrained… If I tell u I like boxing and cars or whatever u wouldn’t change ur opinion about me, if I act fembrained all the time, even those will fit in w being fembrained.
Basically fake it till u make it
how do i know if i act fembrained so that the malebrained stuff gets overridden? can i know it myself or can i only know it if i ask others
I think as soon as I started to feel even remotely like a woman, thanks to e effects(even if I don’t pass)it just came naturally, like I had to let go of my repper mask u know?
im already past this point but i kinda come back to it sometimes whenever i boymode too much and like there’s not much i can do here since im forced to for the near future. id rather just honmode ngl
Yeah, if I could honmode I would 100% do that
What about you is malebrained
my hobbies
I meant specifically
aviation, airliners specifically and to engage with it i fly in the simulators a lot. from what i saw the only other people who are into this are 40 year old men and like 3 troons total
computer programming, linux. self explanatory
‘niche’ gaming, i call them hidden gems and i play them on emulators/older consoles i have. stuff like older generations of monster hunter im also into creepy and comfy horror
ordered from most to least time spent on them
That’s cool. My mom works for an airport. She knows a lot about all that too.
she’s very lucky then
this is all autismbrained ngl except horror which is 100% fembrained
yes youre correct its autismbrained but male autism. i mean cmon the aviation shit counts into transport vehicle tism and its 100% male. like you ever saw a cisf completely obsessed with trains or something? no its always troons
i dont talk to cisfs because i dont like cissoids so idk i know my cisf sister was into gooner anime figures which made me uncomfortable tbhon
thats kinda disgusting. repper poon maybe?
im confused on how u transition if ur malebrained … i feel like its pretty fembrained to want to be a woman
it is fembrained but its like a scale you know? if theres too much male on one side the scale will tip over in its favor
Its because sex incongruency is a different concept from having male typical interests because of stereotypes and socialization differences lol
im afraid other trannies will clock me immediately without even looking at me because of how boyish my interests are, sometimes im so ashamed of this whole thing but i cant do anything about it since you cant dictate what you like
why can’t u dictate what u like…? just like what u want to like
i meant that you cant force yourself to like something it will just be unenjoyable, and if you like something a lot you cant really make yourself unlike it, unless you put in a lot of effort
trying to unlike things is kinda unhealthy, unless its something really bad. there’s value in basically every hobby/interest–you just have to learn how to find it. are there any interests you wish you had which are fembrained? why not try talking to people who enjoy them to see what they like about them? then you could try to imitate what they do
for example, i’ve been consuming a lot more romantic media lately. i used to dislike it because it felt like it just dragged on for too long. then i read someone describing it, where they said the slowness/gradualness was suspenseful to them, and now I’ve learned to see it that way too
idk, im sorry for trying to force help onto you
The unfortunate truth is that the easiest way to do this is to get female friends and kinda chameleonmode until it no longer feels like being a social chameleon, and eventually you settle into a version of womanhood that is both suitably “you” and not clockably male-coded.
But if you were to go at this less bravely, you’d just have to observe trends in behavior and thinking amongst women on the internet. Join female-centric communities or follow female-centric #'s, whether that be Discord or Reddit or Tumblr or whatever, even if it’s just to observe. See what shows they’re watching, books they’re reading, hobbies they’re engaging in, music they’re listening to, get insight into their perspectives on life, observe their writing quirks and incorporate them into your speech, exercise your basic capacities for putting yourself in their shoes, don’t let those skills atrophy. Maybe make some female internet friends if irl is too intimidating. Consider using Tumblr or some shit if you wanna become the queen of fembrain. If your family aren’t all transphobic assholes maybe hang out with a sister more often, or some other relative.
