this isnt really even hostility though its pretty obviously a joke. i think making fun of the fact that non binary people’s identity is used to be transphobic towards transsexuals is fine. because that happens insanely often. the original post that comment was on was calling a (likely binary) trans woman non binary because she had big hands. 99% of the time “non binary” people are cis, and even when there’s nobody involved who identifies as non binary, that identity is commonly used against binary transsexuals. like in the original post on reddit.

“fellow transsexuals”

non binary isnt transsexual though. there is no third sex to trans into. non binary is a social identity. there are probably people who are transsexual and identify as non binary but theyre not the same.

also 4tran adjacent spaces are literally the only spaces ive been able to find at least that arent overrun by nondysphoric (cis) people so while yeah i think “if you do xyz youre faketrans” is stupid, keeping out genuine actual fake trans people is reasonable.

what is the implication here, i feel like youre being intentionally vage.

are you trying to imply the joke being made in the screenshot is the same thing as harassing someone for not being “truetrans” enough?

ive moslty lurked r/4tran4. also been on the board but only a tiny bit but. and ive only really ever seen people call nondysphorics (aka cis) faketrans. and if someone telling you that you don’t have a condition that you do not in fact have makes you feel unsafe then stay off the internet

“this cancer support group makes me feel unsafe because they say i cant identify with cancer if i dont have cancer :(”

what? im confused what is this reply trying to get at?

then the title non binary is a misnomer because by all definitions youre double binary. youre both sides of the binary. there’s no need to get so aggressive about it though

i would like to point out that i have known several non binary copers who have said practically the same things as you and kept that up for a while before dropping it and being a binary transsex person. so maybe my perception is skewed towaards assuming everyone who talks like this would be like they all were

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this string of numbers is binary. yes it contains 1s and 0s but it is still binary. non binary implies containing something else that is not a 1 or a 0. not simply something that contains both.

idk which part of my comment this is in response to this is too vague to give a good reply im sorry :(

my favorite part about having autism is sharing vaguely unpopular stances on things but being bad at articulating it and bveing accused of ragebaiting.

genuine question though about the neurosex side of it. why would the human brain evolve features to control parts of the body that arent male or female. as in, third sex parts for a third sex that doesnt exist. i dont mean like legs that both sexes have.

i dont doubt that intersex brains exist that have both male and female components but we’re talking about non binary, as in neither male nor female. not both male and female.

ive exclusively seen people self identify with the term truscum, never seen it in an insulting kind of context. ive seen transmed used more as an insult or “slur”.

“A person who believes that medically-diagnosed gender dysphoria or medical transition are essential traits of being transgender.”

the key part is the “medical diagnosis” which is literally where “transMED” comes from. someone who generally thinks dysphoria is needed to be trans would be truscum if they really want a word to describe themselves with.

having a brain with traits of both sexes wouldn’t constitute an entirely new sex though imo

if true non binary dysphoria did exist it would likely be insanely rare and also probably hell for anyone who has it since there isn’t a widely accepted third gender socially. and no third sex to have charictaristics of.

i’m not a neurologist though so idk about the brain side of things so maybe i shouldnt talk on that point :P

“Transmed just means you think you need dysphoria to be trans”

no that’s called common sense :/

transmedicalism is universally hated in 4tran and adjacent spaces.

4tran adjacent spaces will never be transmedicalist. these are the most pro diy spaces on the internet. something i know is very much looked down upon is using transmedicalist as a vague boogeyman word.

i personally dont think non binary dysphoria is a real thing or that non binary as a concept is real and that its just a cope for people with less severe but still binary dysphoria :/

i know this is directed at me which is funny because im not on hrt and am probably detrooning lmao

this probably is the case since femboys are a fetishization of femininity. they only care if they can make high pitched moans and not about having a normal woman’s voice for their casual every day speaking

well idk what to tell you then maybe being a cisfag femboy dooms them to never having a truly feminine voice. i dont interact withy those people or communities anymore so :/

the only people ive met who have fagvoice are annoying femboys who probably watch one “how to do a girl voice” video and think an annoying fake valley girl accent is how to sound like a woman. people who actually voice train with speech therapists or tutorials for trans women end up voicepassing