i know that the fembrained thing to do is just to tell yourself that my interests arent malebrained but its not working :(

also im back if anyone cares

  • nikki
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    13 days ago

    why can’t u dictate what u like…? just like what u want to like

    • theirsairOP
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      13 days ago

      i meant that you cant force yourself to like something it will just be unenjoyable, and if you like something a lot you cant really make yourself unlike it, unless you put in a lot of effort

      • nikki
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        13 days ago

        trying to unlike things is kinda unhealthy, unless its something really bad. there’s value in basically every hobby/interest–you just have to learn how to find it. are there any interests you wish you had which are fembrained? why not try talking to people who enjoy them to see what they like about them? then you could try to imitate what they do

        for example, i’ve been consuming a lot more romantic media lately. i used to dislike it because it felt like it just dragged on for too long. then i read someone describing it, where they said the slowness/gradualness was suspenseful to them, and now I’ve learned to see it that way too

        idk, im sorry for trying to force help onto you