i know that the fembrained thing to do is just to tell yourself that my interests arent malebrained but its not working :(
also im back if anyone cares
i know that the fembrained thing to do is just to tell yourself that my interests arent malebrained but its not working :(
also im back if anyone cares
im confused on how u transition if ur malebrained … i feel like its pretty fembrained to want to be a woman
it is fembrained but its like a scale you know? if theres too much male on one side the scale will tip over in its favor
Its because sex incongruency is a different concept from having male typical interests because of stereotypes and socialization differences lol
im afraid other trannies will clock me immediately without even looking at me because of how boyish my interests are, sometimes im so ashamed of this whole thing but i cant do anything about it since you cant dictate what you like
why can’t u dictate what u like…? just like what u want to like
i meant that you cant force yourself to like something it will just be unenjoyable, and if you like something a lot you cant really make yourself unlike it, unless you put in a lot of effort
trying to unlike things is kinda unhealthy, unless its something really bad. there’s value in basically every hobby/interest–you just have to learn how to find it. are there any interests you wish you had which are fembrained? why not try talking to people who enjoy them to see what they like about them? then you could try to imitate what they do
for example, i’ve been consuming a lot more romantic media lately. i used to dislike it because it felt like it just dragged on for too long. then i read someone describing it, where they said the slowness/gradualness was suspenseful to them, and now I’ve learned to see it that way too
idk, im sorry for trying to force help onto you