don’t reduce anyone to their bodies.
But what if everyone reduces me to my body
you shouldn’t do what they do. women are more than their bones.
try meditating, it’s helped me a lot
communicate over internet in text only
ummm maybe don’t ?
I can’t I just think about their bones all the time especially when they’re small and cute and skinny
i misread it as “how do i communicate with cis women ABOUT constantly thinking about their ribcages [etc etc]” sorryyyyyyyyyyy
Realize that people are their consciousness and their body is merely a container for their souls.
We, troons are used to be thinking about bodies in this way.
Cissoids aren’t. They feel their body. It’s natural to them. They don’t think of it as a puppet they have to control, they actually are their body.
I know that universalizing your own experience is a way to imagine that it’s something that just is rather than something you can control, And that’s comforting in a way because it releases you from the responsibility of the hard work of self progress-
-but you don’t speak for me, you don’t speak for anybody but yourself.
Being aware of physical differences is normal, obsessing over it to the point you no longer see women as anything but a collection of traits you are envious of-
That’s not normal at all, and I wish you the best of success working on it, because that’s no way to live your life.
