its missing a relationship every time pretty mućh BUT if you don’t find yourself missing any previous partner or thinking about anyone else ever then thats the exćeption
hard for me to miss previous partners when they were either when I was a teen or generally unhealthy, like I’m not gonna start pining for my highschool gf when I was 15
idk I’m just scared of getting into something before I’m ready and ruining it or having a rebound or w/e
for me is her :(
i think they’re really just the same thing. missing her is missing everything you provided to each other; a relationship is how two people provide to one another. all relationships are both similar and dissimilar. so, when trying to process, i think its good to avoid thinking about “the relationship” as some ontological state you can be in, and u should try focusing on the little, specific, individual details instead
idk if I wholly agree, I definitely miss her because she was my best friend, if my other friends and especially best friends left my life I’d be mourning losing them too, and I think theres so much more to a relationship than how two people provide for each other
like what? i intend a pretty loose definition for “provide”
idk, maybe I’m just being semantic but I wasn’t always trying to provide something to her or expecting her to always provide something to me, I just liked existing in the same space as her sometimes, which I suppose you can say is providing something but that wasn’t the point yknow
time
unfortunately
:(
