I have skirts and dresses but I barely wear them, I like to wear jeans and tanktops most of the time, but I wear accessories and earings and whatever. I dont try very hard. I just wanna dress like the cool cis women I know around me, who very rarely dress highfem in the way that trans women think they need to. Although I feel very insecure in spaces wear Im supposed to have those skills like weddings or fancy restaurants.

i can be quite inconstistent at maintaining connections, but sure!

woah im in SK too waow

Thats understandable, I just really wanted to answer the question honestly. I think the curse of being connected to our AGAB will always haunt all trans people, but we can also all find comminalities in experience because of that curse.

I really like non-binary people, I admire those that seek to find solice in some way outside of the binary, even though I dont relate to it myself. Having dated both amab and afab nonbinary people I dont think it plays much in to attraction for me, Im bi and can generally be attracted to anyone. However I do think the path in which they reached their current identity does affect how I see them and act around them. For example I dated someone who identified as a trans woman before realizing they actually liked to be seen as more masculine didnt want to be a woman, but still needed estrogen to function and not feel dysphoric. The type of jokes and observations I could make with them were things that an afab enby would just simply not be able to relate to. However I certainly did not see them as a woman or a man at all. I think the lived experience of each individual will drastically change the way we relate to each other, no matter how much I wish I could see someone fully detached from their agab, I think the similarities and differences in experiences will always be present.

mine are like this, but my t is nuked to near zero, i dont think this is a good measurement. I just have poor circulation and work a job that uses my hands all day

I understand the feeling, I hope you find the light my dear <3

I watched awful porn for years as a moid… I definitely think it messed me up a bit, but since getting on hormones I dont even think about watching it anymore, being free from the constant urge to use my own body is one of my favourite things about E. Getting on hormones may heal this part that feels broken, it has helped for me.

Thinking it wasnt bad enough for me to do anything about it lead me to the darkest period of my life…

seeing this at 3 am when I work at 7 whoops

Lmao I realized when I was 24 due to a very good acid trip and pulling the right tarot card, sometimes I feel very fake trans, but I like to believe it was a higher power shaking some sense into me.

whats your favourite way you got attention irl recently??

I started at 25… somewhat of a luckshit tho

Me every day

Im thinking about the last time I was hooking up with another tranny and she told me I needed to shave better because she has a very careful skincare routine and I very slightly irrated her skin when we makeout. She absolutely had worse stubble than me. Still pisses me off to think about…

I have eternal fag voice from smoking and vaping too much

damn you really are wtf, good job!!!

Im 26, I feel like the coolest people I know are older than 30. Honestly I feel younger now than I did at 19. In my repping teen years I felt like a rotting old man waiting for death

i dont wear a bra so people start at my tits instead of my face lollll

its going from plus 15 C yesterday to minus 10 tomorrow… beautiful near summer day to snow again in TWO DAYS. The canadian prairies are so fucked weather wise