my voice is untrained and i also dont really care about it like that, i dont really have any desire to walk around doing everyday stuff in a skirt or dress, nor do i really wanna wear makeup.
i can buy women’s clothes, i actually did order a few things on Friday, but the stuff i wanna wear isnt anything that a guy couldnt wear too.
like idk. it feels nebulous to me at best. girlmoding or whatever wouldnt make me feel better even if i lived in a progressive area and doing so would get me gendered “correctly”. i dont care about getting she/her’d, none of that stuff matters to me. so i just dont see the point.
I have skirts and dresses but I barely wear them, I like to wear jeans and tanktops most of the time, but I wear accessories and earings and whatever. I dont try very hard. I just wanna dress like the cool cis women I know around me, who very rarely dress highfem in the way that trans women think they need to. Although I feel very insecure in spaces wear Im supposed to have those skills like weddings or fancy restaurants.