possible sneedposting, but I love trans people. I love seeing John 50s that still have a beard shadow, I love anxious obvious boymoders, I love doods with green hair and facial piercings, I love normie bookish tgirls, I love transbian goths with poorly done black lipstick, I love unreadable enbies.

Sure plenty of trans people are weird or annoying or whatever, but seeing others going through the same (or similar) bullshit and still existing and putting themselves out there makes me feel so much safer and alive. idk what you look like, how clocky you are, how anxious you are. you deserve to live in your community and feel alive.

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      thank you for appreciating me trying to be positive

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    pretty real but also if someone saw me and i knew their first thought was “wow! their honfidence is inspiring” i’d kms in front of them

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      noooo I dont mean it like that, but I know what you mean lmao

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    yeah I appreciate it too, IDC how sneedy it is. it was super cool making my most recent pilgrimage to tranny mecca and seeing multiple trans people throughout the day, every day. trans people being able to exist in society and it feel basically normalized warms my heart.

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      I live in a relatively small Canadian city, but theres still quite a few of us here, I hope the US stops being so terrifying soon, id love to visit some of the major US cities some day.

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        yeah I hope it stops being terrifying soon… I wouldn’t wanna visit here either until things have calmed down more

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        idk what she meant but i’m currently at the game developers conference in san francisco and i’ve clocked 23 tgirls and 10 potential boymoders in the first 7 hours

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          Waow, I want to go to there.

          I have to go to a conference in Vegas in 3 weeks and I’m actually dreading it, it will be my 3rd time going but my first time going since transition and HNGGGGGGGGG

          I’m going to sleepmaxx imagining going to yours instead ☺️ I’m happy for you Nona ✌🏻

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        It seems to change depending on who’s saying it, but it’s probably Portland, Seattle, or San Francisco. Any major US is gonna be pretty cool in that regard though, NYC, Boston, Philly, Baltimore, DC, Chicago, LA, etc.

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        I had Seattle in mind, but Portland has just as many too basically. Apparently SF has a lot too according to a couple of other posters, I never knew that.

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    I love it too!

    I love when I see us in groups, like people who’ve found their people, looking at and observing and interacting with one another like the rest of the world isn’t there.

    I LOVE the couples holding hands.

    I love the stealth grannies who wear their flags to be out and visible with those of us that don’t have the option

    I love the gym bros who are built like fucking tanks, I love seeing them lean into “Cool” in the way that always felt so wrong for me.

    I love seeing us happy, and seeing us succeed.

    Thank you for this post, it’s made me think that MAYBE people see me when I don’t see them and think “I love the hard working women who read books on the train”

    Or in the case of the man in the wheelchair today who has filled my day with happy tears , maybe they think “I love ones who took a bad hand they were dealt, and played it the best they could anyway”

    Thank you for this post 🫶🏻

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      your cute story earlier inspired me to make this post! thank you <3

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    Depends on my mood. Sometimes I get bitter and disgusted from self hatred, but other times it’s somewhat comforting to know you’re not the only freak around

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    I hate trannys but if I ever see a fellow tranner I might say hi