She’d have rather tried to detroon to cheat on me with a straight woman on the other side of the planet than love me, someone who actually loved her, and I’m literally the state next door to her.

I dropped $2 grand ($1500 USD) on flights and a bougie king size hotel room in the center of the city CBD and bought almost every meal she fucking ate for her, I shouldered all her troubles and woes and put myself second for almost 2 fucking months, when I tried to talk to her about what was troubling me she scolded me for risking “setting her off” or completely changed the subject back to herself almost immediately.

I called the fucking ambulance to her house at 4 in the fucking morning when she posted the suicide note, I was doing everything I could to get a contract and transfer to her city with my current job.

And in return she tries to cheat on me with a straight woman on the other side of the globe, genuinely what the fuck.

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    Honestly though, despite the memeing, being left for a cissoid is any tranner’s worst nightmare, this happening as cheating on top is so cartoonishly evil it feels like bad writing. I have this fear everyday and having someone actually experience it is heartbreaking. I hate this for you and the perpetrator can be certain to be on my shitlist until the end of time.

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      Idk about calling Nicole a cissoid but thank you.

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        I somehow thought this was about being cheated on for a cissoid, I guess I understood that wrong.

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      Yea, this is horrible behaviour. Playing on every tranners worst fears

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    WEEK LONG SITUATIONSHIP WITH A STRAIGHT WOMAN ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE GLOBE VS 2 MONTH RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO ACTUALLY LOVED YOU AND LIVES A STATE OVER AND PLANNING TO MOVE TO YOUR CITY AND SPENT A FUCK LOAD OF MONEY TO MAKE A SPECIAL HOLIDAY FOR YOU.

    WELL WEEK LONG SITUATIONSHIP, OBVIOUSLY!

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      i wish u were my gf i cant imagine cheating on someone that would show me such kindness

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      You are involved in this as well? How deep does this go?

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          We’re coming for r/straighttransgirls reputation for drama lol

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        Not ,that .Deep ,i Was Just ,talking 2Her ,Thru this ,Shit nd ,Trying 2 .Help Her , .Theres No ,Evil .Conspiracy

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            Cobby was supporting Trish through mental health stuff, not me, and she drew the line when Trish attempted to cheat on me, just to clarify.

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              Ahhh ok ok, still Cobby being lovely as always. Do you have support tho?

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                I’m going to followup on the therapy referral I requested a couple months ago, try not to worry about me too much.

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            she went behind my back and lied to nicole so that i couldnt have her

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              i Didn’t ,Lie 2Nicole, Trish ,I Told her ,What I Believe ,2Be ,true

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                and its false. ive told you this a hundred times

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            Cobby was also supporting Trish with mental health stuff, but couldn’t stand by when Trish tried to cheat on me.

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      SO YOU RUINED MY CHANCE AT TRUE LOVE BECAUSE YOU FELT BAD FOR HER? WHAT THE FUCK COBWEB

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        Waow, I only thought you were a richshit piece of shit, but you are a richshit piece of human waste. That’s so eye opening.

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        Do you even realise how much of a cheating piece of shit you sound like right now?

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        i Didn’t ,Do Any ,of What .i Did, For/coz, of Ure .Girlfriend ,Trish , i Did it .For ure Own ,wellbeing

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        You are a really good person and a good gf from what you’ve described. I’m so sorry you weren’t appreciated and that you were cheated on. You deserve better, love 🫂

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          I don’t think I was perfect by any stretch but I tried my best, idk, I think I need to do some self reflection before I think about “deserving better”.

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            I don’t think I was perfect by any stretch but I tried my best

            And that’s good enough, more than enough probably, really.

            I think I need to do some self reflection before I think about “deserving better”.

            Well, self reflection is good, chances are you weren’t perfect. I just want to be clear that you definitely deserve better than some who doesn’t value you and is cheating on you

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              No for sure, I think life comes in cycles, before this I had a gf I wasn’t good enough for, now I’ve had a gf who was, well, I suppose everyone knows well by now. I suppose I over-corrected by permitting too much trying to be a better partner, I hope I find a healthy middle-ground in my future.

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    Literally what ever even happened in that week long situationship or whatever that caused this I genuinely don’t understand why detroon for some woman that wouldn’t want you anyways when she already had a gf

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      Must have been pretty fucking good if I wasn’t good enough.

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              your brain is working better than anyone elses your really niceington dear cobby🫀🫀🫀

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                  i think bein worried about her isnt bad… she may have done something stupid and mean but she still shouldnt hurt herslef…

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              You’re an angel Cobby, your brain and heart are perfect

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          ive literally thrown everything away for you.

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              look if she didnt break up with me i was going to break up with her. she and i werent going to work out. she was occupying a place in my heart built for you and i felt bad stringing her along when all i could think about is you.

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                Do you think you’re a good person?

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          ive had fps before this, none of them felt like the passion we had for each other in that week, nicole i really wsnt to be a boy with or without you, please reconsider.

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    god that’s awful im so sorry:((

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    jesus christ, what a scumbag. you cant save someone else from herself.

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        Can’t say I’m surprised that she’s a horrible person she was openly talking about how she would detroon for nicole here sorry you had to go through an awful relationship like that

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          Thank you, but really I should’ve have ended it long before it got this bad, so I need to do better as well.

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            It’s usually the good person taking responsibility, even though they’re not in the wrong, while the actual culprit deflects. This seems like such a situation.

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    reading it like this, she kinda looks a little bad

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      Just smidgen, just a pinch.

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    yeah and that weekend was the worst fucking weekend of my life i spent the entire time dissociated and in fight or flight and when i said i wanted to detroon you made fun of me and pretending you were detrooning too i literally wanted to detroon from that weekend alone. and now you come back to a site you swore off just to make me look bad. seriously?

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      My fucking God you’re the victim in everything, I was asking you how you’d feel if I was telling you I wanted to detroon as well and asking you to stop during a weekend I was trying to make the best of, not making fun of you, you always saw the worst in me and everything I said and did despite trying nothing but my fucking best for you.

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        Fucking insane you’d come back here to tell me it was “the worst weekend of your life” btw, that’s so shitty, do you have any remorse?

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        im not having this conversation with you, you blocked me. were both not in the right headspace. au revoir.