Option 1: I continue hanging out with trans people and put up with the fact that some people there are giga fucking autistic to the degree that I frankly have a hard time seeing them as a peer or an equal, because I feel like I am dealing with a special needs child without any self awareness when I talk to them.

Option 2: I just start refusing to hang out with those kinds of people.

Also bonus question: am I evil?

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    worrying about hypotheticals instead of talking to people probably won’t do you any favors

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      This is not a hypothetical, this is an actual question I’m having to consider

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          In places that are catered for trans people, you see all kinds of troons

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            It’ll be fine, just go make friends. I’m pretty sure you’re an adult and can handle what comes your way with patience and respect and what not.

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              Really this is a question about if there is a non-rude way to just kinda avoid hanging out with some people without starting a fight

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                Like, have you actually met someone who fits this really harsh description?

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                  Yes, but perhaps that says more about me than about them. But yes.

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              Of course I can, occasional run ins with people who annoy me is not the end of the world. But I don’t have endless patience and I don’t want to spend my limited free time with people who I’d be ashamed to be seen with in public. Maybe I’m evil and transphobic for that, but yeah.

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      I have, but what if the cool tranny hangs out with uncool trannies I don’t like and I end up seeing those uncool trannies as well?