Option 1: I continue hanging out with trans people and put up with the fact that some people there are giga fucking autistic to the degree that I frankly have a hard time seeing them as a peer or an equal, because I feel like I am dealing with a special needs child without any self awareness when I talk to them.

Option 2: I just start refusing to hang out with those kinds of people.

Also bonus question: am I evil?

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    3 days ago

    Really this is a question about if there is a non-rude way to just kinda avoid hanging out with some people without starting a fight

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      3 days ago

      Like, have you actually met someone who fits this really harsh description?

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        3 days ago

        Yes, but perhaps that says more about me than about them. But yes.

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            3 days ago

            That’s okay, I’ll just try to keep my thoughts to myself and hang out with people I actually like. It shouldn’t be so complicated.

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              3 days ago

              I mean yeah, by all means share your thoughts and all. I just didn’t really know how to advise you.