Option 1: I continue hanging out with trans people and put up with the fact that some people there are giga fucking autistic to the degree that I frankly have a hard time seeing them as a peer or an equal, because I feel like I am dealing with a special needs child without any self awareness when I talk to them.
Option 2: I just start refusing to hang out with those kinds of people.
Also bonus question: am I evil?
Of course I can, occasional run ins with people who annoy me is not the end of the world. But I don’t have endless patience and I don’t want to spend my limited free time with people who I’d be ashamed to be seen with in public. Maybe I’m evil and transphobic for that, but yeah.