Option 1: I continue hanging out with trans people and put up with the fact that some people there are giga fucking autistic to the degree that I frankly have a hard time seeing them as a peer or an equal, because I feel like I am dealing with a special needs child without any self awareness when I talk to them.

Option 2: I just start refusing to hang out with those kinds of people.

Also bonus question: am I evil?

  • suviOP
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    21 days ago

    In places that are catered for trans people, you see all kinds of troons

    • blacktarheroine
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      21 days ago

      It’ll be fine, just go make friends. I’m pretty sure you’re an adult and can handle what comes your way with patience and respect and what not.

      • suviOP
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        20 days ago

        Really this is a question about if there is a non-rude way to just kinda avoid hanging out with some people without starting a fight

        • blacktarheroine
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          20 days ago

          Like, have you actually met someone who fits this really harsh description?

          • suviOP
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            20 days ago

            Yes, but perhaps that says more about me than about them. But yes.

              • suviOP
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                20 days ago

                That’s okay, I’ll just try to keep my thoughts to myself and hang out with people I actually like. It shouldn’t be so complicated.

                • blacktarheroine
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                  20 days ago

                  I mean yeah, by all means share your thoughts and all. I just didn’t really know how to advise you.

      • suviOP
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        20 days ago

        Of course I can, occasional run ins with people who annoy me is not the end of the world. But I don’t have endless patience and I don’t want to spend my limited free time with people who I’d be ashamed to be seen with in public. Maybe I’m evil and transphobic for that, but yeah.