Option 1: I continue hanging out with trans people and put up with the fact that some people there are giga fucking autistic to the degree that I frankly have a hard time seeing them as a peer or an equal, because I feel like I am dealing with a special needs child without any self awareness when I talk to them.
Option 2: I just start refusing to hang out with those kinds of people.
Also bonus question: am I evil?
It’ll be fine, just go make friends. I’m pretty sure you’re an adult and can handle what comes your way with patience and respect and what not.
Really this is a question about if there is a non-rude way to just kinda avoid hanging out with some people without starting a fight
Like, have you actually met someone who fits this really harsh description?
Yes, but perhaps that says more about me than about them. But yes.
Yeah, I don’t really know what to say to this one.
That’s okay, I’ll just try to keep my thoughts to myself and hang out with people I actually like. It shouldn’t be so complicated.
I mean yeah, by all means share your thoughts and all. I just didn’t really know how to advise you.
Of course I can, occasional run ins with people who annoy me is not the end of the world. But I don’t have endless patience and I don’t want to spend my limited free time with people who I’d be ashamed to be seen with in public. Maybe I’m evil and transphobic for that, but yeah.