That’s it

  • i am an exit
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    8 days ago

    they are helping me the best they can I’m ungrateful and retarded

      • i am an exit
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        8 days ago

        I act like an asshole to them even though they’re doing their n best, I don’t realize how. Lucky I am to have them it could’ve been way worse

  • semibright
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    8 days ago

    you should live your life for yourself, not for others

    FAKE FAKE FAKE. NOT TRUE

    • tresedoseOP
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      8 days ago

      When you bring someone to the world, it’s your obligation to maintain them, and you shouldn’t expect anything in return

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          8 days ago

          obligations are societal expectations that aren’t universal

          I have an obligation to not become a tranny because my parents did the bare minimum

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    8 days ago

    i do owe them because i love them and they love me and i disappointed them in the past

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    8 days ago

    I do owe them having a good and normal successful life and giving them grandchildren, but I won’t be able to.

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      8 days ago

      why do you owe them grandchildren, because they did the bare minimum?

      • Fuwarei
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        8 days ago

        Because they love me deep down and they went through so much struggle for me, and I want to make them happy and proud of me

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          8 days ago

          and the only way to make them “proud” is forcing yourself to have children?

          • Fuwarei
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            8 days ago

            No, I mean I just don’t want to disappoint them

            • tresedoseOP
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              8 days ago

              you should live your life for yourself, not for others (cliche phrase, but it’s true)

              • Fuwarei
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                8 days ago

                I should live my life so it benefits me and others the most

                • tresedoseOP
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                  8 days ago

                  except forcing yourself to have children doesn’t benefit you at all, it actually does the contrary

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    8 days ago

    it can also be framed like this: “you don’t owe anything to the people that forced you into existence”