That’s it

  • Fuwarei
    2·
    11 days ago

    Because they love me deep down and they went through so much struggle for me, and I want to make them happy and proud of me

    • tresedoseOP
      1·
      11 days ago

      and the only way to make them “proud” is forcing yourself to have children?

      • Fuwarei
        1·
        11 days ago

        No, I mean I just don’t want to disappoint them

        • tresedoseOP
          2·
          11 days ago

          you should live your life for yourself, not for others (cliche phrase, but it’s true)

          • Fuwarei
            1·
            11 days ago

            I should live my life so it benefits me and others the most

            • tresedoseOP
              1·
              11 days ago

              except forcing yourself to have children doesn’t benefit you at all, it actually does the contrary

              • Fuwarei
                1·
                11 days ago

                Yeah I agree that it exceeds my well being and doesn’t benefit my parents enough to justify it. And sometimes you really can’t make good decisions, your biology instinctually does otherwise.