That’s it

  • tresedoseOP
    1·
    9 days ago

    and the only way to make them “proud” is forcing yourself to have children?

    • Fuwarei
      1·
      9 days ago

      No, I mean I just don’t want to disappoint them

      • tresedoseOP
        2·
        9 days ago

        you should live your life for yourself, not for others (cliche phrase, but it’s true)

        • Fuwarei
          1·
          9 days ago

          I should live my life so it benefits me and others the most

          • tresedoseOP
            1·
            9 days ago

            except forcing yourself to have children doesn’t benefit you at all, it actually does the contrary

            • Fuwarei
              1·
              9 days ago

              Yeah I agree that it exceeds my well being and doesn’t benefit my parents enough to justify it. And sometimes you really can’t make good decisions, your biology instinctually does otherwise.