That’s it

  • Fuwarei
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    13 days ago

    No, I mean I just don’t want to disappoint them

    • tresedoseOP
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      13 days ago

      you should live your life for yourself, not for others (cliche phrase, but it’s true)

      • Fuwarei
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        13 days ago

        I should live my life so it benefits me and others the most

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          13 days ago

          except forcing yourself to have children doesn’t benefit you at all, it actually does the contrary

          • Fuwarei
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            13 days ago

            Yeah I agree that it exceeds my well being and doesn’t benefit my parents enough to justify it. And sometimes you really can’t make good decisions, your biology instinctually does otherwise.