That’s it

  • tresedoseOP
    1·
    26 days ago

    why do you owe them grandchildren, because they did the bare minimum?

    • Fuwarei
      2·
      26 days ago

      Because they love me deep down and they went through so much struggle for me, and I want to make them happy and proud of me

      • tresedoseOP
        1·
        26 days ago

        and the only way to make them “proud” is forcing yourself to have children?

        • Fuwarei
          1·
          26 days ago

          No, I mean I just don’t want to disappoint them

          • tresedoseOP
            2·
            26 days ago

            you should live your life for yourself, not for others (cliche phrase, but it’s true)

            • Fuwarei
              1·
              26 days ago

              I should live my life so it benefits me and others the most

              • tresedoseOP
                1·
                26 days ago

                except forcing yourself to have children doesn’t benefit you at all, it actually does the contrary

                • Fuwarei
                  1·
                  26 days ago

                  Yeah I agree that it exceeds my well being and doesn’t benefit my parents enough to justify it. And sometimes you really can’t make good decisions, your biology instinctually does otherwise.