

I pretty much understand why it would be painful. You only have online where you can really open up about it. And meeting with other trans people, even as discreet as you could be, puts you at a risk to no longer being stealth. It’s still better than not passing/not being out, but it comes with struggles of its own.
Kind of like when people tell that ace people can just live without telling anyone. It’s technically true, but the loneliness and alienation you feel towards others when you’re not out makes it so you have to mask your needs and struggles,






Yeah I hate these subs cause they have no amount of children’s rights and all the amount of “goddamn these bratts are so annoying”.