• Shad
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    16 days ago

    Yes it does☠️ Why does little age difference make you doubt that

    • DianeOP
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      Because what if they were sexually abused and then doing it to me as response…

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        16 days ago

        Doesn’t excuse their actions in any way

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    like yes??? sexual abuse is sexual abuse why would it not count

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      Because sometimes when a child is sexually abused they do it to others because they dont understand it… and what if it happened to them thats why they did it to me…

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        in the case the specific ages matter because after a certain point it should be obvious sexual abuse is not a thing you should do

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        that literally makes zero difference legally

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          I dont think that children can be held legally accountable… and this was like 10 years ago the crime is probably expired by now…

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            ooh i see… still it doesnt make it NOT abuse or make it okay

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    My rapist was 1 year younger that me

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    It’s abuse even if they’re younger than you. But I read through the comments and I understand the point you’re making. If you were super young kids they might not have known what they were doing was wrong. But even if it wasn’t malicious, it’s still abusive especially if you said no at some point

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      He knew what he was doing he was 12 and used graphic words to tell me what to do…

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        That’s just textbook regular abuse. Males regularly start consuming porn around that age so it’s not unthinkable that he got the words from that instead of getting it from a chain of abuse

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          He told me I had to perform sexual acts or I wasn’t allowed to eat or drink for 3 days at his house i had to stay at… and so thats why I think maybe some one forced him to do those under the same threat because I don’t know how a child could come up with something cruel like that…

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            It’s still abuse regardless of how complex the reasoning. The best you can do is hope to recover for yourself