It’s abuse even if they’re younger than you. But I read through the comments and I understand the point you’re making. If you were super young kids they might not have known what they were doing was wrong. But even if it wasn’t malicious, it’s still abusive especially if you said no at some point
That’s just textbook regular abuse. Males regularly start consuming porn around that age so it’s not unthinkable that he got the words from that instead of getting it from a chain of abuse
He told me I had to perform sexual acts or I wasn’t allowed to eat or drink for 3 days at his house i had to stay at… and so thats why I think maybe some one forced him to do those under the same threat because I don’t know how a child could come up with something cruel like that…
It’s abuse even if they’re younger than you. But I read through the comments and I understand the point you’re making. If you were super young kids they might not have known what they were doing was wrong. But even if it wasn’t malicious, it’s still abusive especially if you said no at some point
He knew what he was doing he was 12 and used graphic words to tell me what to do…
That’s just textbook regular abuse. Males regularly start consuming porn around that age so it’s not unthinkable that he got the words from that instead of getting it from a chain of abuse
He told me I had to perform sexual acts or I wasn’t allowed to eat or drink for 3 days at his house i had to stay at… and so thats why I think maybe some one forced him to do those under the same threat because I don’t know how a child could come up with something cruel like that…
It’s still abuse regardless of how complex the reasoning. The best you can do is hope to recover for yourself