yea, grindr

unironically. i found two very nice men over grindr. But i had to crawl through multiple layers of dozens of chasers. But they are pretty easy to spot at least

they exist, trust. But are very rare and you have to crawl through a bunch of chaser first to find them

I agree

I’m still not very sure if riding an animal is always necessarily animal abuse. But I would tend to saying yes. Idk. But I imagine its a lot of fun yea

Why do you believe this?

I understand. Yea try to figure out if he would be okay with that. It’s important for both of you.

If you would live closer to me i would lend it to you :/

You don’t really know that. Who knows, maybe he will be fine with it. Sure maybe you won’t be together anymore. But you can still be with him and support him.

And also, who knows how long he will stay this way? How long are you willing to do this? 2 years? 4? 10? Any time of that living with dysphoria is hell. Especially when you don’t really know when it will end. You are putting his life, above your own. And that’s no way to live.

You can’t force yourself to be someone that you are not 🫂

And you can’t put his happiness above your own. I’m sorry.

True true

Ah okay, to me it’s probably aroace

Why is it being a gay man?

I’m always here for that lol but seems like many others don’t actually like that

Yea it’s not worth it

So sorry you saw these things. I did too at a young age. Still suffer from intrusive thoughts bc of that. But idk I don’t believe the world is that bad. The Internet and the news are just good at focusing on the bad things. Its basically just a bias.

We have just build a world that brings out the worst in people and puts the worst among us to the top. But people in general are mostly decent. And once you interact with many people you start to realize that. That was at least my experience. Maybe you had the opposite.

Idk if this is helpful. I hope maybe a bit at least

🫂

such a peak season, enjoy it :D

schmorp worp glorpy glorp??

was soll das denn jetzt :( jetzt bin ich aber traurig…