No one takes me seriously. Normies don’t understand it. Often other binary trans people don’t understand it (I don’t blame them). The only people who think they understand are theyfabs but they are often not even dysphoric so I can’t relate to them at all. They could stop being nb at anytime without harm and i would literally kill myself if i had to detrans.
I hate that i can never be cis, or even look cis cause what the fuck would that even mean? I long to be cute and genderless… I hate that even if i achieve an androgynous look people always have to ask my pronouns and ask if I’m a tranny.
Anyone here understand or am i truly just alone? Sometimes i really hope I’m just repping and I’m actually binary trans. but i really doubt that the case.
Hope this is the right place to post here I’m still getting used to this place let me know if i fucked up
same, especially on the not knowing if its enbycope or not, like, am i this way bc ik ill never pass as a cisfem or am i just genuinely nonbinary
i really think I’m not coping, but i still have hope that i somehow am coping. But when i imagine being the opposite ‘agab’ I would also change some things about my body and transition again. Which makes me feel its pretty sure that I’m nb…
No this is real life would be way easier if I was just binary trans
i really do dislike it, and i think i could even be a passoid if i was binary but nope, god punished me and made me be dysphoric about being either male or female. Fmstl
Real and same, If I was just a woman I’d be a luckshit but no I hate my female features as well
Being true NB is much worse than being a binary tranny, honestly. When I thought of myself as agender (since middle school till about college), I never even considered coming out, because I knew no one would genuinely respect it and will just see me as some woke blue-haired snowflake, at about the same category as otherkins. And being androgynous is really tough, I was harassed a lot when I looked androgynous.
yes so real. I know that if i want to have no dysphoria other people will always be able to tell I’m a tranny. Passing goes out the fucking window… and being seen as a woke blue-haired snowflake is so fucking real. I just wanna live my life in peace fr
being put in the same group as theyfabs sounds maddening… you fit right in here :)
thank you <3
Trvke. I wanted to have nothing down there since I was 12, but some stupid right wing youtuber that popped up when I was trying to find out about nb people convinced me that there were only 2 genders and I cried all night. Then again, it’s a good thing this happened, cause if I told them, they would’ve wooped my ass.
After this I went to mainstream subs to see if I related, but no one spoke of dysphoria. I just thought it was me being delusional (for 6 years, somehow? Like cmon).
I somehow stumbled on 4tran4. I got curious and yeah. I only lurked though because I didn’t want to “invade real trans people’s spaces”.
Another thing is, I’m scared I’ll be mistaken for a binary trans person and give people the wrong idea about them. They already have it hard with being third-gendered, and I don’t want to contribute to that stereotype. I also wish I was binary, heck even cis, but I know I can’t stand it.
