Why would you do that?? Why would you want people to know how they could misgender you more effectively? Why would you want them to know what you were born as? Don’t you see your birthsex as a curse like I do? Am I just retarded maybe? I’m also talking about enbys who call themselves “transmasc” or “transfem”. Yes maybe those words are sometimes vxlid to use in specific scenarios. But by god when you call yourself a “transfem NB” you are declaring your fucking AGAB why just why…

Picrel are 3 mods on a trans subreddit and just by reading their titles i could instantly know what they were born as omg im losing my mind

Idk am i retarded or does anyone agree??

  • void
    6·
    27 days ago

    if you proudly mention your agab youre not trans

  • Kath
    5·
    27 days ago

    i see you have not yet learned of the afab transfem and amab transmasc…

    • BasedEnbyShitOP
      4·
      27 days ago

      I already hate that my retarded language forces me to choose one of the two pronouns. Cause there is no they/them. So i choose the opposite of my agab, which can then still be used to figure out what i am… I fucking hate that so much. Maybe i should call myself an it… People see me as a thing anyways.

  • noneday4
    4·
    27 days ago

    They probably enbycoping but idk HOW ppl don’t get a sense of grossness referring to themselves by transfem or transmasc

  • Alex
    4·
    27 days ago

    this is why i dont want to even bother calling myself nb. it means nothing. im still going to be expected to use agab language, say if im feminine or masculine or whatever else.

    i want to be freed from the boxes and expectations, not placed into a third one

    • BasedEnbyShitOP
      2·
      27 days ago

      I get that. But being considered a man or a woman makes me so fucking dysphoric i think I would just kill myself if I didn’t at least consider myself as NB.

  • Livia
    3·
    27 days ago

    thats really retarded, theyre just making it easier to misgender them lmao

  • Semoyon
    2·
    27 days ago

    nonbinary people are definitely happier than anyone on 4bittertran. they dont call it pride for nothing