Why would you do that?? Why would you want people to know how they could misgender you more effectively? Why would you want them to know what you were born as? Don’t you see your birthsex as a curse like I do? Am I just retarded maybe? I’m also talking about enbys who call themselves “transmasc” or “transfem”. Yes maybe those words are sometimes vxlid to use in specific scenarios. But by god when you call yourself a “transfem NB” you are declaring your fucking AGAB why just why…
Picrel are 3 mods on a trans subreddit and just by reading their titles i could instantly know what they were born as omg im losing my mind
Idk am i retarded or does anyone agree??


this is why i dont want to even bother calling myself nb. it means nothing. im still going to be expected to use agab language, say if im feminine or masculine or whatever else.
i want to be freed from the boxes and expectations, not placed into a third one
I get that. But being considered a man or a woman makes me so fucking dysphoric i think I would just kill myself if I didn’t at least consider myself as NB.