Post op I haven’t gotten around to change my documents since the war began (because I’m depressed)

    • Little_medic OP
      3·
      3 days ago

      Honestly people have been surprisingly supportive throughout my transition but I’ve had a lot of problems with my id card in the past year or two I have everything that’s needed to change my documents I should get to it

  • nonarina
    2·
    3 days ago

    سلام. امیدوارم الان شما امن هستید :( متاسفم که تو در این جنگ هستی. خیلی ترسناک است… (ببخشید اگر فارسی من عجیبه)

      • nonarina
        1·
        2 days ago

        من برای تو درد میشه🫂

        دارم کتاب اسم «برای خورشید پس از شب‌های طولانی» را می‌خونم. آن درباره‌ای «زن زندگی آزادی» اما در انگلیسی است. آیا کتاب، مقاله، یا فیلم های خوبی دیگه درباره این موضوع یا تظاهرات اخیر می‌دونی، ترجیحا از نویسنده ایرانی و در فارسی؟ می‌دانم که منتشر کردن در کشور سخت‌تر است پس اگر زیاد وجود ندارند آن خوبه. در غیر این یکی که شما را دوست داری و توصیه می کنی :) (sorry if the sentences are weird, I’m reaching the limit of my Farsi lol)

  • boomboomtelaviv
    1·
    3 days ago

    :( sending love and prayers I have no questions just empathy. Even tho we are all hurting my heart goes out to you, and believe me back in the states we are struggling because of this orange buffoons delusions. We are trying our hardest to end the war but the CIA is organizing protests with lion Iran flags and Israeli ones too there’s a lot of struggle and I’m scared of protesting myself but I wish there was more I could do :/

    • Little_medic OP
      2·
      3 days ago

      I really don’t like people like you. You jump from one evil to another.

      • boomboomtelaviv
        1·
        3 days ago

        I don’t have really any access at all to what Iranian people think of the situation and I’m sorry for coming in with my opinions. I only ever heard the opinion of a ciswoman who didn’t support the regime but hated American bombing more than the regime because she was up close to it. I would be down to listen. I just have to paint a picture with very little information and it can often end up confusing. If you want to give your takes on anything that can inform me I would listen, im trying not to be evil I promise.

        • Little_medic OP
          3·
          3 days ago

          I was in the protests (on 18th of dey) I rang on some buildings and hid in one ,I saw everything with my own eyes they hunted people down like animals they had dshk,snipers it was an absolute bloodbath, nothing in any language can describe it.

          • boomboomtelaviv
            1·
            3 days ago

            I think I get the picture. Where I was coming from with the lion flag protests in america was that it was itself a pro Israeli protest and the lion flag has become synonymous with the war effort. I get the sense that Iranians especially young ones are fighting and dying against tyranny and there isn’t yet a viable option other than being pro-USA OR pro-islamic republic (afaik). I too support an actually just and fair Iran and know the regime isn’t doing that, best I can do is hope and pray for justice. ❤️

            • Little_medic OP
              3·
              3 days ago

              Most people in general like to jump from one evil to another it happens all the time because they are desperate, I don’t like it but I get it and btw the son and lion flag is a symbol of national identity for at least the past 500 years it doesn’t have anything to do with any dynasty or Israel.

  • DysphoriaGirl
    1·
    3 days ago

    How did you deal with the religious side of things… did you ever try to pray it away or do conversion therapy or any such thing. Are you heterosexual or secretly also queer. How is your view of western troons and queers and life. How did your family take it. How safe is life for you. When did you know. When did you start HRT. And lastly are you happy?

    • Little_medic OP
      4·
      3 days ago

      I was super religious until 14 I did everything (fasting praying 3 times a day) and I was also born in a super religious family so it was really difficult for my parents so they took me to a lot of doctors and also a cleric and they all said the same thing that it was defect and that I should transition, I’m heterosexual but most of my friends are queer (transbians, gays,…) I’m safe but I should change my documents, I secretly started hrt several time before coming out so I don’t remember the exact time, no I’m not happy I’m stuck in a war torn country

      • DysphoriaGirl
        2·
        3 days ago

        😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

        God, I wish that was me… my story sadly was very painful and different… I am also in a very religious family (I’m arab muslim) and we live in the west but they are very conservative…

        I have a lot of trauma and abuse from my family and I first started to have these feelings when I was 14 years old but instead I became very zealous, like extremely and hated all trans people and queer people a lot… my father called me a faggot as a child

        I pushed it all away and tried to do conversion therapy for 2 years from 16-18y old and it hurt me a lot and made me very traumatized…

        My parents outed me as bisexual when I was 18y old and I had to flee from home. Then I learned that I was transsexual at 19y old and tried to also push it away again a lot and know I’m 20y old and still struggling…

        I’m afraid God hates me and I will go to hell…

        We are sunni…

        Do you have discord… I’d love to talk 🙏🫂

      • DysphoriaGirl
        1·
        3 days ago

        I hope there will be peace or thay you can immigrate to a safer country one day 🫂🙏