I feel like I have no place as a non binary person. Mainstream spaces are full of tucutes, but 4tran adjacent spaces seem to get more and more weird like that. Am I still welcome here? Is my dysphoria enough or are we already actual anti-enby transmedicalists now?

This is the post btw: https://www.reddit.com/r/4tran4/comments/1sczen7/comment/oehh2ss/

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    4tran adjacent spaces will never be transmedicalist. these are the most pro diy spaces on the internet. something i know is very much looked down upon is using transmedicalist as a vague boogeyman word.

    i personally dont think non binary dysphoria is a real thing or that non binary as a concept is real and that its just a cope for people with less severe but still binary dysphoria :/

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      Yea I’m sure the most complex organ on this planet is completely binary. You really think Neurosex (or whatever people call it) can only be on or the other? That its not possible my brain/neurosex is neither fully male nor female?

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        having a brain with traits of both sexes wouldn’t constitute an entirely new sex though imo

        if true non binary dysphoria did exist it would likely be insanely rare and also probably hell for anyone who has it since there isn’t a widely accepted third gender socially. and no third sex to have charictaristics of.

        i’m not a neurologist though so idk about the brain side of things so maybe i shouldnt talk on that point :P

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          yea, its almost like we are rare. and yes, it is fucking hell??? Are u ragebaiting? im just gonna assume u are

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            my favorite part about having autism is sharing vaguely unpopular stances on things but being bad at articulating it and bveing accused of ragebaiting.

            genuine question though about the neurosex side of it. why would the human brain evolve features to control parts of the body that arent male or female. as in, third sex parts for a third sex that doesnt exist. i dont mean like legs that both sexes have.

            i dont doubt that intersex brains exist that have both male and female components but we’re talking about non binary, as in neither male nor female. not both male and female.

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              Why are you being mean to me :(( I only said your identity is fake and you’re lying or confused about you own lived experiences :((( I’m literally neurodivergent and a minor :(((

              Kys

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              01100110 01100001 01100111 01100111 01101111 01110100

              this string of numbers is binary. yes it contains 1s and 0s but it is still binary. non binary implies containing something else that is not a 1 or a 0. not simply something that contains both.

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                My brain probably has male and female characteristics. Which makes it impossible for me to be happy/not dysphoric in a fully male or fully female body. I’m not sure what your argument really is. It does not make sense to consider me a woman or a man. Idc if you want to call me a weird mix of both or neither or whatever the fuck. and yes i fucking despise living in a body thats always kind of ‘gendered’ in one way or another. I hate it so much. you can look at one of my old posts where u can read that i hate being nb

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                  then the title non binary is a misnomer because by all definitions youre double binary. youre both sides of the binary. there’s no need to get so aggressive about it though

                  i would like to point out that i have known several non binary copers who have said practically the same things as you and kept that up for a while before dropping it and being a binary transsex person. so maybe my perception is skewed towaards assuming everyone who talks like this would be like they all were

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                    "then the title non binary is a misnomer"🤓 ☝️

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        idk which part of my comment this is in response to this is too vague to give a good reply im sorry :(