“Ugh I wish I was white.” “Ugh I hate my 4c hair I should perm it.” “What’s the matter with the joke I’m not white and I thought it was funny?” “Idk I just prefer dating white people.”

ANCESTORS FOUGHT FOR HUNDREDS OF YEARS FOR EQUAL RIGHTS JUST FOR YOU TO BEG FOR ATTENTION AND VALIDATION FROM WHITE PEOPLE LIKE A DOG! GET HELP!!! NOW!!!

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      Everyone read the bluest eye right now deadass

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    trvke if you’re going to doom at least compare yourself to people the same race

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    I hate my 4c hair cause its a bitch to do anything with not cause race esteem. Im not gonna perm it or relax it tho.

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    I for some reason cant even think that girls and boys of my ethnicity are pretty… I have always hated my skin color and always felt like my people are “thugghish” and just internalized a lot of racism… but I dont know what to do… I wish I could be pretty like white people and I hate the fact that I have such ethnic features… I just feel so ugly for being arab

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      Arabs are thuggish? What do you think of black people? 😰

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        Sadly the first black people I ever knew in life abused me, which is why for example I have a resistance to being attracted to black man… I just cant… I feel scared of black man specifically and feell uncomfortable… I can acknowledge them being pretty and very nice people… later in life I met very nice black people… but idk I think life just made me sadly a good candidate for racism but I have for years now steadily worked on combating that in myself when it comes to black people… so yeah my mind might say “African-Americans are also thuggish” but I know that this is simply bullshit and that not everybody is “hood” but idk… with arabs here where I am from, most guys I have known (also cant be attracted to arab men) are just asshole macho hyper-masculine guys and just yk… lower education and speech and issues and idk… I just… yeah… I really really should read Fanon and work on my shit.

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          Yes you should lol. At least you know.

          Though I sorn necessarily blame you for your view of men though white men aren’t better than any minority man.

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      You have to love yourself girl

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          Yeah but Hating yourself for being a tranny is understandable. Hating yourself for being non-white is not

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            i knowwww but its so hard

            especially when hatred against indians is everywhere

            i wouldn’t be surprised if some people here hate indians too cant blame them either

            being non-white has brought nothing good to me at all, why would i not hate it or even love it

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              can’t blame them either.

              Girl. You can absolutely blame them

              I can’t speak that much for indian racism but it’s based on the same stereotypes as anti-black racism from what I’ve seen. They’re not valid nor are they defining of your culture. There are plenty of disgusting, violent, and unseemly aspects of Western culture that white people feel no shame or responsibility for because only minorities need to think about the respectability of their own race. It’s a ridiculous double standard.

              I understand that it’s brought you pain but all you’re doing by hating yourself because of your race is validating years of racist made up stereotypes. It’s not an easy thing to unlearn but I think it’s worth it, because you’re never going to change it (skin bleaching will leave you looking like a freak) I think you should try focusing on aspects of your culture that you like and focus on looking to women you think are beautiful closer to your own race to aspire to.

              It’s different but when I stopped trying to look like the mostly white trans men I saw online I felt a lot better about myself 😭

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                idk… ive come to hate everything about being indian

                the colour of my skin, my bones, the way im stupidly hairy all over and the way my voice sounds all ugly and stereotypical, even the food i eat

                i just feel so useless and inferior like there’s no point to even try and transition if you aren’t white

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                  Do you hate all other indian people?

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      Idk girl go see those people

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        i agree with you. idk how to be less miserable abt my hair though. i’m trying

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          Textured hair is hard so I get it. Don’t let white beauty standards decide when your hair looks good tho. It’s perfectly fine the way it grows on your head 💙