“Ugh I wish I was white.” “Ugh I hate my 4c hair I should perm it.” “What’s the matter with the joke I’m not white and I thought it was funny?” “Idk I just prefer dating white people.”

ANCESTORS FOUGHT FOR HUNDREDS OF YEARS FOR EQUAL RIGHTS JUST FOR YOU TO BEG FOR ATTENTION AND VALIDATION FROM WHITE PEOPLE LIKE A DOG! GET HELP!!! NOW!!!

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    i knowwww but its so hard

    especially when hatred against indians is everywhere

    i wouldn’t be surprised if some people here hate indians too cant blame them either

    being non-white has brought nothing good to me at all, why would i not hate it or even love it

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      1 month ago

      can’t blame them either.

      Girl. You can absolutely blame them

      I can’t speak that much for indian racism but it’s based on the same stereotypes as anti-black racism from what I’ve seen. They’re not valid nor are they defining of your culture. There are plenty of disgusting, violent, and unseemly aspects of Western culture that white people feel no shame or responsibility for because only minorities need to think about the respectability of their own race. It’s a ridiculous double standard.

      I understand that it’s brought you pain but all you’re doing by hating yourself because of your race is validating years of racist made up stereotypes. It’s not an easy thing to unlearn but I think it’s worth it, because you’re never going to change it (skin bleaching will leave you looking like a freak) I think you should try focusing on aspects of your culture that you like and focus on looking to women you think are beautiful closer to your own race to aspire to.

      It’s different but when I stopped trying to look like the mostly white trans men I saw online I felt a lot better about myself 😭

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        idk… ive come to hate everything about being indian

        the colour of my skin, my bones, the way im stupidly hairy all over and the way my voice sounds all ugly and stereotypical, even the food i eat

        i just feel so useless and inferior like there’s no point to even try and transition if you aren’t white

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          1 month ago

          Do you hate all other indian people?

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            not really… unless they’re assholes

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              If you don’t think all indian people are inferior Then why are you inferior because your indian? That’s retarded.

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                i don’t know how to answer that question but i just do… it is really