Anyone else? Probably.
Ultimately I’m not that that much older but idk it’s just weird to think at times. Like I said previously most people here just seem to be like 18-22
Like I found an older Ipod I got back in like 2005-2006 and I remember getting it and it’s just like, crazy for me to think that it’s just older than numerous users I’ve seen around here
idk. I just feel alienated from every trans space in general honestly. It’s just even though it isn’t the most healthy place I just seem to somewhat jive here more. Maybe it’s just being able to speak more freely idk. I do have many other trans friends (online only, no irl friends) but when it comes to the lives they lived and their experiences/thoughts/opinions about this all I just feel way too different, and I’ve just had my life stagnant for so long that I just feel even more different but that’s another topic
idk. I’ve just been in this particular mood lately. I don’t like that times progressing, but that’s stupid and not fixable.
idk what the fuck im doing in general.
I just feel alienated from every trans space in general honestly.
I feel this so much. I transitioned just 3 months before turning 29, and there’s a lot of regret about starting this late.
Its either seeing the 18 years old here “its too late for me puberty has ruined me, ngmi”, or the boomers on Reddit who dont even pass but give no shit because they are old & have money / an already established family.
im the exact same… its a very weird and alienating space
Oh god yeah this really fucks with me because I am way older but also these sorts of spaces are genuinely the first place I’ve ever felt like I belonged, which is really fucked up. But it’s like, I have this self hatred and stuff and the air is so empty with other people, so it comes out like a cartoon stink cloud fart and everyone sees, I’m always going to be weird in places but at least I’ll never get that look when I’m here.
You should post more. Oldshit quality posts are a dire need
Life stagnancy hits so hard. If you stagnate, you rot. You should always move on.
Yeah, I’m 38, but there is something special about this place. Most other online trans spaces, especially those with older demographics, are honestly just fucking weird. It’s 50% men larping as trannies, 40% reppers in failing marriages, and 10% actual well-adjusted oldshits. At least here people feel like they have some degree of hope (that doesn’t revolve around weird sex shit).
The most important thing is to remind myself how unhinged I was when I was younger and not judge people here for dooming and spiraling over the smallest shit.
In the exact same situation minus having trans friends.
we are not many but we are here, sending tranma solidarity 🫶
I think there’s more mid to late twenties here than your giving credit. New posts are just flooded with the same few teenagers and those rly close. Its rough. Still feels like we could have good years left, but lost most of them.
