I have never really cared for looks, maybe the guy shorter than me because I’m tall lol. Eyes that don’t look at me like I’m a freak. A smile that I can just melt for. A life filled with interesting things he can teach me about. Someone who doesn’t mind my absent mindedness. They don’t mind that I know a bit of everything, but I’m also incredibly dumb. A guy who doesn’t mind my ocd behaviour, or that I’m a an anxious ball of nerves that trues to make everyone else enjoy things first.

ok i can answer this one: brown hair and brown eyes probably, bc i find both beautiful. I’m pretty smart, but she’s smarter. She’s into some nerd stuff i don’t know anything about, and she doesn’t know anything about mine so we can both share our interests and see someone experience it for the first time. I think I would like someone who is kind, who wants me to take care of her and sees me as someone strong and capable of protecting her. that would be nice.

I haven’t really thought about this too deeply yet hmmm.

Realistically i rarely go out looking for something specific and just know when my interest is peeked when the right person comes along (it’s been a long time tho).

But like what i daydream about currently: Someone who can make me feel small for once. Who i feel is competent enough to give up some agency to (but not all). Who is quick witted and likes teasing me to where i get flustered and don’t have any comebacks and blush embarrassedly. Strong so he can toss me around and pick me up and carry me and stuff. Who i truly believe has my best interest at heart and therefore can kind of turn my brain off for a while and let him kind of make decisions for us together; like 24/7 dom/sub type dynamic but not just sexual (I’d probably have some issues with this irl but i like the fantasy. I’d like to try it tho bc I’ve been a pretty independent person most my life but the idea of a power dynamic makes my stomach flutter)

cute, dorky guys with big ole smiles and big ole hearts. curly hair is a must. freckles are awesome. he has to have good arms. im a big arm girl tbh. love me some arms. thick is good. hairy is good but i prefer straight over cuely arm hair. hes gotta be kind. i like shy, bookish nerds but confident, outgoing guys are naturally attractive too.

good post!

well. i’m bi, but i lean way more towards men. he should be a Bear first of all, just big, burly, hairy. black hair, a full beard, a barrel belly, a big deep laugh. i love Bears, especially if they are loud and proud. my man would wear his heart on his sleeve and be honest to a fault so i would never have to guess at his emotions. he would be my opposite in a lot of ways, like he’d be friendly, outgoing, streetwise in ways im not. he wouldnt be as nerdy as i am. he’d have few problems getting stuff done, like adult stuff, even if he has lazy days. maybe he’s a lout and a grouch and blunt, but to make up for it hed be a cuddlebug and he’d always remember i’m there. he would take the lead, but he would put my input above anyone else’s. he wouldnt forget that i’m there, just like i’d never forget me. he would always wait for me to catch up when we’re out. we would able to do all the fun stuff together like travelling, camping, trying new things. and he wouldnt be much interested in things like the internet and social media. i would feel safe to be myself around him, and he would feel safe in my arms as well. we would bicker about dumb things, because arguing can be fun sometimes, but always work it out. like we could wrestle for fun. he’d feel secure if i need time by myself. we would defend each others quirks, but also gently tease each other. we would push each other to do our bests, like he would encourage me to come out of my shell and i could help him cool off (minmax relationship lol). we’d have similar goals, like no kids, no extended family butting in, pooling our income for travel and hobbies, maaaybe buy a house together. he would want to grow old with me. he would dance with me in our living room, and not call it silly… yknow, stuff like that.

my bad…