I haven’t really thought about this too deeply yet hmmm.

Realistically i rarely go out looking for something specific and just know when my interest is peeked when the right person comes along (it’s been a long time tho).

But like what i daydream about currently: Someone who can make me feel small for once. Who i feel is competent enough to give up some agency to (but not all). Who is quick witted and likes teasing me to where i get flustered and don’t have any comebacks and blush embarrassedly. Strong so he can toss me around and pick me up and carry me and stuff. Who i truly believe has my best interest at heart and therefore can kind of turn my brain off for a while and let him kind of make decisions for us together; like 24/7 dom/sub type dynamic but not just sexual (I’d probably have some issues with this irl but i like the fantasy. I’d like to try it tho bc I’ve been a pretty independent person most my life but the idea of a power dynamic makes my stomach flutter)