i sometimes see people here talk about having literal friends while not being out and i just get so fucking confused each time because how does that even happen? after trooning out i just couldnt. i couldnt do this shit. even if i look like a man, being deadnamed, misgendered and treated like a man by ‘friends’ hurts mentally so much more than just being alone. so much so that its been years since i had irl friends

  • neby
    3·
    2 months ago

    Because it’s embarrassing and I don’t want anybody to know.

    • theirsairOP
      1·
      2 months ago

      okay? you dont have to tell anybody you can just distance yourself like i did and be friendless (well if you can)

      • neby
        1·
        2 months ago

        But I like my friends and want to spend time with them :(

      • Fuwarei
        1·
        2 months ago

        Humans are social creatures, friendships are worth it even if they bring pain