i sometimes see people here talk about having literal friends while not being out and i just get so fucking confused each time because how does that even happen? after trooning out i just couldnt. i couldnt do this shit. even if i look like a man, being deadnamed, misgendered and treated like a man by ‘friends’ hurts mentally so much more than just being alone. so much so that its been years since i had irl friends

  • theirsairOP
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    2 months ago

    okay? you dont have to tell anybody you can just distance yourself like i did and be friendless (well if you can)

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      2 months ago

      But I like my friends and want to spend time with them :(

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      2 months ago

      Humans are social creatures, friendships are worth it even if they bring pain