Sneediness is not inherently bad, it’s only bad for troons.
In reality, if you feel like acting as a sneed, you should, and if you don’t, you shouldn’t. We shouldn’t think of ourselves differently than cis women, but most of us do, most of us place higher standards on ourselves because of how others perceive us. Not everyone is built to be completely carefree about how they’re perceived by others, this is the group of people who have something to lose
oh don’t worry about me, yes I’ve had pretty horrible experiences but I have connections and relationships that are extremely deep and strong now. But seeing the difference between what I have now and the average experience I had before does make me believe more strongly that most people don’t know what a “friend” should be.
And this is doubly true for marginalized people being friends with the general populace
I’m just saying its generally interpreted differently, humans are just gross creatures somewhat… Yes some specific people might not see it that way but generally trans women are not held to the same standard no
It really gets obvious when you’re semi-stealth and seeing how differently people interact with you once they know you’re trans
they have nothing to lose by being sneedy so they get to have fun, unlike us
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Sneediness is not inherently bad, it’s only bad for troons.
In reality, if you feel like acting as a sneed, you should, and if you don’t, you shouldn’t. We shouldn’t think of ourselves differently than cis women, but most of us do, most of us place higher standards on ourselves because of how others perceive us. Not everyone is built to be completely carefree about how they’re perceived by others, this is the group of people who have something to lose
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i get u, it’s not about my friends judging me but me judging myself
well yeah most friends aren’t really true friends unfortunately
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oh don’t worry about me, yes I’ve had pretty horrible experiences but I have connections and relationships that are extremely deep and strong now. But seeing the difference between what I have now and the average experience I had before does make me believe more strongly that most people don’t know what a “friend” should be.
And this is doubly true for marginalized people being friends with the general populace
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???
WE LITERALLY WOULD
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Well I mean usually ppl look at transgenders differently and the behaviours allowed socially aren’t the same? Pretty basic normal stuff honestly
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im not saying i wouldnt ever do that but i feel like u have to sort of be more careful about the way you joke when u are a tranny
a tranny gets a harsher sentence than a cissoid for the same crime, basically
I’m just saying its generally interpreted differently, humans are just gross creatures somewhat… Yes some specific people might not see it that way but generally trans women are not held to the same standard no
It really gets obvious when you’re semi-stealth and seeing how differently people interact with you once they know you’re trans
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depressingly true
thats so true i dont know why i didnt think of it that way before
this is goijg in my note