Sneediness is not inherently bad, it’s only bad for troons.
In reality, if you feel like acting as a sneed, you should, and if you don’t, you shouldn’t. We shouldn’t think of ourselves differently than cis women, but most of us do, most of us place higher standards on ourselves because of how others perceive us. Not everyone is built to be completely carefree about how they’re perceived by others, this is the group of people who have something to lose
oh don’t worry about me, yes I’ve had pretty horrible experiences but I have connections and relationships that are extremely deep and strong now. But seeing the difference between what I have now and the average experience I had before does make me believe more strongly that most people don’t know what a “friend” should be.
And this is doubly true for marginalized people being friends with the general populace
Sneediness is not inherently bad, it’s only bad for troons.
In reality, if you feel like acting as a sneed, you should, and if you don’t, you shouldn’t. We shouldn’t think of ourselves differently than cis women, but most of us do, most of us place higher standards on ourselves because of how others perceive us. Not everyone is built to be completely carefree about how they’re perceived by others, this is the group of people who have something to lose
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i get u, it’s not about my friends judging me but me judging myself
well yeah most friends aren’t really true friends unfortunately
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oh don’t worry about me, yes I’ve had pretty horrible experiences but I have connections and relationships that are extremely deep and strong now. But seeing the difference between what I have now and the average experience I had before does make me believe more strongly that most people don’t know what a “friend” should be.
And this is doubly true for marginalized people being friends with the general populace
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