its not even just my gf now another friend of mine sends this in the group chat when she wants to play games together

  • noneday
    7·
    1 day ago

    they have nothing to lose by being sneedy so they get to have fun, unlike us

      • noneday
        1·
        1 day ago

        Sneediness is not inherently bad, it’s only bad for troons.

        In reality, if you feel like acting as a sneed, you should, and if you don’t, you shouldn’t. We shouldn’t think of ourselves differently than cis women, but most of us do, most of us place higher standards on ourselves because of how others perceive us. Not everyone is built to be completely carefree about how they’re perceived by others, this is the group of people who have something to lose

          • noneday
            1·
            1 day ago

            i get u, it’s not about my friends judging me but me judging myself

          • mljemy
            1·
            1 day ago

            well yeah most friends aren’t really true friends unfortunately

              • mljemy
                1·
                1 day ago

                oh don’t worry about me, yes I’ve had pretty horrible experiences but I have connections and relationships that are extremely deep and strong now. But seeing the difference between what I have now and the average experience I had before does make me believe more strongly that most people don’t know what a “friend” should be.

                And this is doubly true for marginalized people being friends with the general populace

            • mljemy
              31·
              1 day ago

              Well I mean usually ppl look at transgenders differently and the behaviours allowed socially aren’t the same? Pretty basic normal stuff honestly

                • puppyoomfOP
                  3·
                  1 day ago

                  im not saying i wouldnt ever do that but i feel like u have to sort of be more careful about the way you joke when u are a tranny

                • mljemy
                  2·
                  1 day ago

                  I’m just saying its generally interpreted differently, humans are just gross creatures somewhat… Yes some specific people might not see it that way but generally trans women are not held to the same standard no

                  It really gets obvious when you’re semi-stealth and seeing how differently people interact with you once they know you’re trans

    • puppyoomfOP
      1·
      1 day ago

      thats so true i dont know why i didnt think of it that way before

    • puppyoomfOP
      1·
      1 day ago

      its a gif actually but i dont know how to make that upload