things change between friends idk you dont know if they are gonna use something against you one day
both my exes, during our respective relationships, told their girl friends everything about our sex life and private stuff behind my back and i think this is widely accepted behavior
i know im overly paranoid but surely you can understand the principle right? you cant guarantee that its a closed loop, you cant guarantee that someones mind wont change
I’m just saying its generally interpreted differently, humans are just gross creatures somewhat… Yes some specific people might not see it that way but generally trans women are not held to the same standard no
It really gets obvious when you’re semi-stealth and seeing how differently people interact with you once they know you’re trans
but do you really not trust the people who love you enough to be silly with them?
I assumed this was a “friend group” discord of like ~15 people, and not “close friends who love you” (though tbh I have a hard time being that close with a cis person, tho yes the few that are somewhat close are fine)
But yeah for anything except the absolute closest most understanding people this logic definitely applies
WE LITERALLY WOULD
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Well I mean usually ppl look at transgenders differently and the behaviours allowed socially aren’t the same? Pretty basic normal stuff honestly
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im not saying i wouldnt ever do that but i feel like u have to sort of be more careful about the way you joke when u are a tranny
a tranny gets a harsher sentence than a cissoid for the same crime, basically
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things change between friends idk you dont know if they are gonna use something against you one day
both my exes, during our respective relationships, told their girl friends everything about our sex life and private stuff behind my back and i think this is widely accepted behavior
i know im overly paranoid but surely you can understand the principle right? you cant guarantee that its a closed loop, you cant guarantee that someones mind wont change
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sad truke 😔
(fr where are the good trukes…)
I’m just saying its generally interpreted differently, humans are just gross creatures somewhat… Yes some specific people might not see it that way but generally trans women are not held to the same standard no
It really gets obvious when you’re semi-stealth and seeing how differently people interact with you once they know you’re trans
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I assumed this was a “friend group” discord of like ~15 people, and not “close friends who love you” (though tbh I have a hard time being that close with a cis person, tho yes the few that are somewhat close are fine)
But yeah for anything except the absolute closest most understanding people this logic definitely applies