Cbt only exists to drive me mad istg

  • thrwy809
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    8 days ago

    i like therapy bc otherwise i have no one to talk to about the stuff that makes me sad

      • Narcissus
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        8 days ago

        the trick is to say “i used to be super suicidal and imag8ne dying every day but i definitely am not like that anymore for sure i promise”

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        8 days ago

        it’s better than nothing for me. i just avoid talking about things that i think they might do something over

      • four_walls_of_love
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        8 days ago

        tbf thats almost never the case

        unless they believe theres like an immediate threat for your safety

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          if i was honest they would absolutely think theres an immediate threat to my safety lmao

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              they can be surprising lenient

              on the referral form it basically explicitly said that “thinking about suicide more than once a week” would be grounds for sending me to a ward. thats like, CONSIDERABLY more mild than anything i have going on

  • Narcissus
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    8 days ago

    tbf judging all therapy by cbt is like judging all countries by visiting britain

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        therapy is good for getting coping machanisms or for dealing wifh stuff rhats not concrete or past exeriences that are traumatic, but it cant fix all mental illness and it cant do jackshit about actual material problems. and definitely the root of it is bourgeois pseudoscience but thats everything really.

        cbt is a complete scam though.

        • Loose_Sandwich9217OP
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          but it cant fix all mental illness and it cant do jackshit about actual material problems

          yeah so its completely useless for me then lol

          • Narcissus
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            8 days ago

            i mean same im just saying its not like there isnt things it can do its just not going to help ypu specifically because you have immediate problems here and now

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    8 days ago

    My therapist helped me a lot, he is a really good guy, except that he wants me to give up boymoding and learn to do makeup.

    • Loose_Sandwich9217OP
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      i mean mines nice personally ig but therapy itself is completely useless and does nothing

      • RtHonAlice
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        He actually helps me to get shit done. Gets me to get myself organised and turn plans into actual action. I can’t complain. I just wish I could do it without him.

  • opalwiry
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    8 days ago

    cbt is really dumb yeah, but actual good therapy isn’t

    • Loose_Sandwich9217OP
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      8 days ago

      but actual good therapy isn’t

      i dont think this is real outside very specific circumstances

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        3 days ago

        maybe not, idk. i think i just got really lucky because the first therapist i ever went to is a g