there’s no being normal or becoming a passoid. 99% of cis women will always mog u. you girlmode and you might get gendered correctly or pity pass but there will always be some people that notice something weird about you. even then, if you can get to this point it’s basically making it and you’re better off than the vast majority of trannys.

in the end transition is just harm reduction until you get to a place where it’s possible to cope. you don’t actually get to be a woman

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    I honestly think I’m going to be a semipassoid for the rest of my life and there’s genuinely nothing I can feasibly do about it

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    I could probably have been a genetic androgynous luckshit but God made me 6’5. if you’re below like 5’9 at least give it a good go.

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      I think the heighthons should still try transitioning if they have bad dysphoria because it’s better than repping but yeah it suck’s to be super tall and know there is nothing you can ever do to change it

      so fun walking into a room and all the women are literally 12 inches shorter than me 😆🔫

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        if you’re 5’5 and below and say it’s over just kill yourself, if I may be honest. (pure cope and seethe from me.)

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      i mean it’s not that i don’t try this is just my experience being years into transition and girlmoding and effortmaxxing. there’s just some things that can’t be fixed that u eventually just have to cope with which feels shitty to me

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        honestly, I think most things can be fixed if you just have a shit ton of money. which basically means most trannies have to cope because there is no God.

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          not really? money definitely helps a lot but it depends on what issues you have and it can only do so much. like i got extremely lucky by being able to have a job and gambling on nvidia/btc/eth during the covid dip, which let me pay for ffs but most of the changes are really subtle because they can only take off so much bone. not to mention midface and facial planes and skull size are all unfixable

          i’m not saying that it doesn’t help a lot but there’s definitely a limit in what can actually be fixed.

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            most things can be frauded or just excused to cissies as being cis-honnish. even your skull if you’re willing to get crazy. they will never be able to make the torso any shorter however.

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              yea my point is you can’t fraud everything so for most of us semipassing twinkhon is the limit. you might be able to pass as a cishon to some people but more perceptive people will clock you or notice something uncanny

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                i honestly don’t believe that’s true. especially if you can afford plenty of surgeries and stay the course.

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                  like you said there’s nothing that can change torso length though and there’s plenty of other features like that. an extreme example but look at caitlin jenner, even after surgery she’s still a hon.

                  not that i can afford plenty of surgeries im still paying off my ffs loan but i’ve done a lot of research and i feel like the extent of which people here think surgery can fix things is a little overrated.

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    Honestly I kind of just accepted this, I will always be a freak everywhere I go either because I am a tranny, autistic, asexual or chronically depressed. I will hardly be able to relate or have people who relate to me and this caused me so much pain but I am slowly trying to accept this is the life I will have

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      Yeah i think it’s something most of us have to accept it’s just kinda sad and hard to do

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      being a semipassoid twinkhon is better than being a repper