there’s no being normal or becoming a passoid. 99% of cis women will always mog u. you girlmode and you might get gendered correctly or pity pass but there will always be some people that notice something weird about you. even then, if you can get to this point it’s basically making it and you’re better off than the vast majority of trannys.

in the end transition is just harm reduction until you get to a place where it’s possible to cope. you don’t actually get to be a woman

  • thrwy809OP
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    19 days ago

    not really? money definitely helps a lot but it depends on what issues you have and it can only do so much. like i got extremely lucky by being able to have a job and gambling on nvidia/btc/eth during the covid dip, which let me pay for ffs but most of the changes are really subtle because they can only take off so much bone. not to mention midface and facial planes and skull size are all unfixable

    i’m not saying that it doesn’t help a lot but there’s definitely a limit in what can actually be fixed.

    • pleasantaftertastes
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      19 days ago

      most things can be frauded or just excused to cissies as being cis-honnish. even your skull if you’re willing to get crazy. they will never be able to make the torso any shorter however.

      • thrwy809OP
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        19 days ago

        yea my point is you can’t fraud everything so for most of us semipassing twinkhon is the limit. you might be able to pass as a cishon to some people but more perceptive people will clock you or notice something uncanny

        • pleasantaftertastes
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          19 days ago

          i honestly don’t believe that’s true. especially if you can afford plenty of surgeries and stay the course.

          • thrwy809OP
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            19 days ago

            like you said there’s nothing that can change torso length though and there’s plenty of other features like that. an extreme example but look at caitlin jenner, even after surgery she’s still a hon.

            not that i can afford plenty of surgeries im still paying off my ffs loan but i’ve done a lot of research and i feel like the extent of which people here think surgery can fix things is a little overrated.

            • pleasantaftertastes
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              19 days ago

              enough money and effort and frauding and if you’re short you’ll pass, assuming you aren’t 50.

              • thrwy809OP
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                19 days ago

                i’m not short i’m 5’9 and asian. i won’t call myself a heighthon but im still a solid 6” taller than the avg asian cis girl. majority of trannies aren’t short either

                  • thrwy809OP
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                    19 days ago

                    for some lucky people but not for me. my point is mostly that those lucky people are extremely rare and it’s sad that for the majority of us it’s just not possible because of something whether it’s height or voice or facial planes or shoulders etc.