there’s no being normal or becoming a passoid. 99% of cis women will always mog u. you girlmode and you might get gendered correctly or pity pass but there will always be some people that notice something weird about you. even then, if you can get to this point it’s basically making it and you’re better off than the vast majority of trannys.

in the end transition is just harm reduction until you get to a place where it’s possible to cope. you don’t actually get to be a woman

  • thrwy809OP
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    18 days ago

    i’m not short i’m 5’9 and asian. i won’t call myself a heighthon but im still a solid 6” taller than the avg asian cis girl. majority of trannies aren’t short either

      • thrwy809OP
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        18 days ago

        for some lucky people but not for me. my point is mostly that those lucky people are extremely rare and it’s sad that for the majority of us it’s just not possible because of something whether it’s height or voice or facial planes or shoulders etc.

        • pleasantaftertastes
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          18 days ago

          I really think most people could probably make it with enough money. it’s easy enough to fraud. these issues aren’t equal.

          • thrwy809OP
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            18 days ago

            they’re not equal but everything is relative to how bad the issue is. i think after going through t puberty most people are unlucky in different ways. in the end money is also about luck so it doesn’t rly matter if u think surgery is enough to fix most issues or not i guess