there’s no being normal or becoming a passoid. 99% of cis women will always mog u. you girlmode and you might get gendered correctly or pity pass but there will always be some people that notice something weird about you. even then, if you can get to this point it’s basically making it and you’re better off than the vast majority of trannys.

in the end transition is just harm reduction until you get to a place where it’s possible to cope. you don’t actually get to be a woman