I’m not repulsed by sex, but I have no drive for it either. It’s like bowling; I’d never do it alone, but it’s fun with someone I care about and people seem to like doing it for some reason.
At best, it’s a way to emotionally connect with someone.
There is always a secret third thing. Stereotypes and social expectations exist for people who lack sex characteristics, and there is a phenotype that exists for someone who never experiences puberty.
The mood swings and hot flashes caused by having no sex hormones in your body are withdrawal symptoms that go away over time. Is it that difficult to imagine that, with a set of social expectations, neurochemistry, and physical phenotype, your brain can naturally fit it?
My extreme dislike of sex hormones is part of the dysphoria, but I also do have my own destination.
Little known fact, but there is in fact a secret third phenotype caused by the absence of puberty. A thousand years ago people could recognize a eunuch on the street with their clothes on, because you have a noticeably different body shape and certain tells.
That’s me. I am after that.
A reasonable assumption, but wrong. People rarely talk about it, but there is in fact a set of social expectations for people who are visibly neither. Lingering since the days where eunuchs weren’t uncommon.
It takes mental effort to deny the existence of a third category and consistently push people into one or the other, even if that third category is just ‘uncertain’. You can’t expect normies to ever expend mental effort on anything.